‘Body Image’ Category

  1. Thank You

    April 27, 2013 by Heather

    From the very bottom of my heart, thank you.

    Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

    Thank you for sharing your stories and feeling comfortable enough to trust me and this community to reveal your truth and to give support to myself and others. 

    Gratitude

    I believe that binge eating is a serious problem in this country and because of the shame associated with it, we simply don’t want to speak up. But we have to. We have to be vulnerable in order to really make the choices that are aligned with your Highest Self. And that’s what really gets you on the road to true happiness.

    This conversation will not stop here! I have some big plans coming up around this topic. I want to give you to the tools that I used to overcome binge eating for good. They will help you get to know yourself better, love yourself more, and embrace who you are fully and completely. Once you do that, you’re off to the races and you truly know that you have no limits – only those that you choose to create.

    It really comes down to the fact that you are what you think you are. If you think that you are worthless, you will create experiences that are worthless to you and do not fulfill you. If you think that you are a great person who deserves great things, then (with hard work), you will attract great things into your life. But before we get there, we have to be willing to accept exactly where we are – night binges and all.

    1.) “I accept the place that I am in right now. It is a Divine opportunity to create a better version of myself.”
    2.) “I forgive myself for the self-hatred that I have projected onto myself. I love myself.”

    Get started by working these two affirmations every day. Even if you don’t believe in what you’re telling yourself, fake it ’til you make it. Repetition of a new pattern creates a new behavior. And the current pattern you might be repeating is not working so well for you. So, create a new one. You can do it. I believe in you.

    There will be lots more coming on binge eating. I have big plans to help those of you suffering! I highly encourage you to watch this video below of Jonathan Fields interviewing the incredible Patricia Moreno, creator of Intensati. She is the queen of vulnerability and raw, honest truth. It’s one of the best interviews I’ve seen in awhile.

     

     

    Okay, now go have some fun today! Have a dance party on me. Life is good. :-)

    Stay lovely,
    Heather


  2. Let’s Renew Our Body Vows

    March 27, 2013 by Heather

    Yesterday marked the first day of Gabrielle Bernstein’s five-day May Cause Miracles conference. You can still sign up here, by the way! Like I mentioned yesterday, I’m really getting the message from the Universe that now is a time to learn. It is a time to soak up what I can from my teachers. Ironically, that can come in the form of teaching too. A Course in Miracles says that we teach what we need to learn. I’ve been life coaching some women on the side and feel that spark in me igniting. I feel myself shifting inside and growing from teaching. And I’m also honored that these women are trusting me to help them on their path to healing. It’s truly inspiring!

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    Anyways, back on track. One interview in particular stuck out for me yesterday: Gabby’s interview with Patricia Moreno, creator of the IntenSati method, a challenging workout that combines positive affirmations with intense physical movement. In the interview, Patricia said something that really struck a chord with me. She said that just like two people get married and become united, so should you and your body. She encourages us to look in the mirror every day, renew our vows with our bodies, and say, “I choose to love, honor, and cherish you ‘til death do us part.”

    I just found that to be so powerful. As women, we can become so consumed with one day taking vows with our to-be husband or wife…and we forget that we have to renew our vows with ourselves. 

    “If you want somebody else to love you, you have to be the master of your mouth,” said Patricia. We choose the thoughts that we want to believe and we choose the words that we speak. This matters. When you’re thinking loving thoughts and choosing only to have a conversation of love, your body will become more beautiful to you, and not because of what it looks like but for what it can do as as a vehicle for service for yourself and for others. When you see how beautiful you are, you will see it in everyone and everything.

    Patricia also touched on The Holy Instant, an awesome lesson from the Course. The Holy Instant is “when an ancient hatred becomes a present love.” When an ancient hatred (i.e. “I hate my body”) becomes a present love (i.e. “I love my body”), we choose love over fear. This decision…this Holy Instant…creates the miracle, which is that shift in perception from fear to love. Patricia said that she sees The Holy Instant happen for her clients all of the time in class. People will break down and cry because they feel that sense of relief and experience that shift in perception first-hand when they stop being mean to themselves and start loving themselves.

    Beautiful stuff, huh?

    So, how about we all renew our body vows? Right now! Close your eyes, prop your hands (palms facing upwards) on your lap, and say, “I choose to love, honor, and cherish you ’til death do us part.”

    Immediately, I feel lighter, more present, and ready to rock life. How does that make you feel? 

    Stay lovely,
    Heather

    P.S. – If you’re not on the May Cause Miracles conference train, get your booty signed up now!


  3. Makeover your workout with one simple switch!

    March 25, 2013 by Heather

    Some studies suggest that we have 60,000 thoughts per day.

    Have you thought about the thoughts that you are thinking during your workout? Are you that person who compares yourself to others at the gym? Do you look at the person doing an advanced yoga pose and tell yourself you are less-than that person because you aren’t doing that pose?

    Yoga means union – unification of your mind and your body. Answer this question (and get honest, yo): Are you truly united mind and body during your workout?

    A couple of months ago, I started to notice that, when things got tough during my workout, I would go straight into Egoville. “You can’t do this” and “This move is too hard for you. Just give up” were the main ones that dominated my mind. Sound familiar? 

    If I’m not teaching at Mind Body Barre, I get my yoga on or complete a pilates workout at home. These are ways I move for my mind and my body, but it’s no good if I’m feeding myself and listening to doses of fear, right? For the past six months, I’ve made one simple switch to my workouts: I mantra while I move. 

    Mantra

    Snow White whistled while she worked to make work more fun! Why don’t we mantra while we move to make our workouts more fun and meaningful? Bring the passion to your workouts with mantras.

    While I move, I pick one mantra and repeat it to myself throughout the workout when I feel that I need it (when a difficult move comes or when my mind goes into Egoville). Sometimes, it’s a simple mantra like “I am strong” or “I am balanced” or “I am powerful.” Other times, it’s lengthier. I might say to myself, “My body is a messenger of love” so I can focus on the true purpose of my body while I’m moving it.

    This simple switch is so powerful because we’re re-training our minds while those feel-good endorphins hit. So, literally your mind and your body are flowing together. In union. Now, it will probably feel really silly at first and that’s normal. I felt like a tool doing it at first but I kept practicing it (isn’t everything in life a practice?) and soon, I started to really dig it. Now, it’s like second nature and, best of all, my ego thoughts are barely present now. 

    Do you mantra while you move?

    Stay lovely,
    Heather

    P.S. – You know who is a big fan of mantra~ing while you move? My teacher and mentor Gabrielle Bernstein. Today, her FREE May Cause Miracles conference begins! It’s five days. 20 miracle workers. Endless inspiration. Are you ready for it?! Sign up with me here.

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